Unfortunately, very rare cases where the love lasts throughout life. Most everything is on the usual pattern: a violent passion in the beginning - addictive - irritation - the gap. The reason for separation is everything, from household quarrels to treason, and the reason is always the same - was love, wrote mignews.com.ua.
Why is this happening? The fact is that many ideas about love and the ideal family is based on fatal errors, and as a result of their relationship, they are not what they can expect.
DELUSION FIRST
A happy family is based only on love
It's not quite true. There are families in which people live without love, and they can not be called unhappy. Love feeling cyclical, but because of time or even permanently, may fade, and at the forefront when it comes about that binds you, and without that feeling. This may be common values, attitudes, similar interests and opinions on various topics.
It is very important how you have the same ideas about life, about what you want to come in the future. Before deciding to marry, think what unites you than love.
DELUSION SECOND
Opposites attract
This is one of the most tragic mistakes, ruining the lives of not one family. According to this view, people of different qualities and temperaments as to complement each other, develop into a nice tandem - he has some valuable qualities in her - others, versatile and interesting couple. However, this can only work at the beginning, when the new man, not like you completely grabs your attention and captivates the very fact that is not like you.
But over time it turns out that people with different characters and ways of life does not get along together. There will be two of guy who loves partying all night with the girl, prone to spend the evening at home.
DELUSION THIRD
Sex - the basis of happy relationships
Without sex happy family, full range of relations can not be, that's for sure. But this does not mean that suits both intimate life can replace everything else.
If the husband and wife lack of trust, understanding, spiritual unity, it is only good for sex, their alliance will not survive long.
DELUSION FOURTH
If there is love, about the money you can not think
With great love and inclination to romanticism can turn a blind eye to financial difficulties. But only for a while. Then the inevitable difficulties begin. Persistent worries about how to make ends meet, even destructive to the highest relations.
Financial problems are selected then the space that is necessary for attention to each other. Not necessarily untold wealth, but a stable situation with an income for a strong relationship - a sine qua non.
DELUSION FIVE
People lapped over time
Far. People do not get used to each other, but rather tired of his constant presence near the halves, and then all the negative qualities that irritate you, creep out the surface and serve as a red rag to a bull.
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